Unconditional Love

I practically do nothing for Rainbow…except remember to give her food and water.
I don’t play with her.
I don’t rub her belly.
I don’t take her for a walk.
I don’t put her on my lap and spoil her silly like the boys do.

I don’t do anything of that.

I think she missed me quite a bit when I was gone for most of this week.
Perhaps, that is why she has been camping out under my chair ever since I returned home.

It is kind of sad that she can’t speak and use words to tell me how she feels.
I can only wonder what goes on under those beautiful brown eyes.

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Rainbow Days – On Waiting

She knows I am no fun. So, she hangs out near the main door and waits for each of the boys to show up in the evening and make it “happy hours”.

Even if you didn’t believe in past lives, you would start believing in it if you see the love showered on both sides. Because, there is no way, the love and bond (between Rainbow and the boys) started just a few years ago. I am confident that the bond spans life-times.

Rainbow Days – Falling off the Morning Routine Bandwagon

We all know that morning routines are the toughest.

After years of work, I got the boys “CRAZY” weekday morning routine tidied up.

The rule is simple. Most of the early morning work needs to be finished up the previous evening.

Snacks packed.
Water bottles packed.
Backpacks packed and left near the door.
Coats left in the coat stand.
Shoes near the door step.
Pants, shirts, socks etc..set out near the shower.
Car keys in a little box…so, we are not looking for it in the morning.

I even threatened some of us in the household with severe consequences (for example, “loss of wifi password”. I know, the chillls ran through your spine as you read those 4 words, did it not? Yep, I can be quite evil if I choose to!) if I ever catch them reading in the restrooms in the morning.

The 12 year old and the 6 year old are doing a phenomenal job of getting ready in the mornings.

Every other day, I catch the “other” grown-up kid falling off the bandwagon and not following the “military-like” routine. Playing with Rainbow. Rubbing her tummy.

Granted, he gets up earlier than me and gets the boys started on their morning routine. But, damn it! Can’t he get in row and follow the “military-like” routine?

If I catch him not following the routine, I am going to be my evil-self next week. If you see him, tell him “Consider yourself warned buddy. If I were you, I wouldn’t mess with her.”

Also, my “turning bad” next week might explain any whiny “I hate her” messages you might hear from him. If that happens, you already know whose side to take. Don’t you? Morning routines are the toughest and the ones that work hard to get the routine in place…need support (pun intended). Remember that when you take sides.

“Life is life’s greatest gift. Guard the life of another creature as you would your own because it is your own. On life’s scale of values, the smallest is no less precious to the creature who owns it than the largest.”
— Lloyd Biggle Jr.

And, in case you are wondering, how the story lines runs in the evenings…

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P.S. I love him very much and it is very hard for me to be my evil-self with him. The post is meant to be a fun Friday post to help us all think about morning routines. So, chill. Happy Friday!

Children See. Children Do.

Dog See. Dog Do.

I came back home today evening to find this hilarious scene.

My dog Rainbow was intently looking at the laptop. Clearly, she is doing what she sees the family doing every day.

“Such short little lives our pets have to spend with us, and they spend most of it waiting for us to come home each day.” — John Grogan

 Monkey See. Monkey Do.

My son Ari is going through a phase of “Curious George” episodes. He adores Curious George. Ari wants to be called “Little Monkey”. He gushes every time we call him “Little Monkey”.

Ari sees me capturing pictures ever day. So, he wants to capture pictures as well.

So, here is a picture of Monkey See. Monkey Do.

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Children See. Children Do.

Jokes apart.

There is a lesson here for us parents.

It is easy for us to say to the kids – “Don’t smoke. Don’t drink. Don’t do drugs. Don’t lie.”

Children do what we do, not what we say.